Last Thursday, I boarded a plane bright and early and headed to Dallas for my second round of Blissdom. When I went last year, I didn’t know very much about blogging, I didn’t have any real goals for this blog, and blogging was a hobby for me. Jon Acuff opened up the conference last year and even though there were hundreds of other people in the audience, I felt like he was speaking straight to my fears and insecurities. I spent the rest of the trip pondering the things he said, and I came back with a better understanding of blogging. I don’t know why I didn’t think about it before, but last year would be hard to top. It challenged my way of thinking and guided me in creating real goals for writing. I walked away from the conference this year with much different feelings. I’ve pondered that for the past few days, and late last night, I finally figured it out.
I wish I had kept the momentum going from Blissdom last year. I read Quitter and started getting up earlier, then our big move and summer and loss. It was a little bittersweet to sit in the same place a year later and wish I had been more disciplined about writing and networking. I realized that I had reached the point in which I knew what I needed to do, but I just wasn’t doing it. I slept in on Monday in an attempt to catch up on my sleep, but I spent Tuesday morning (and this morning) writing, while the house was quiet. I can set goals and have dreams, but until I’m willing to wake up and prioritize correctly, things will remain the same.
I thought about breaking this up into several posts, but I’m going to merge the two together. There are so many pictures and things to share, I need a list to keep me on track.
blissdom 2013 in 8 bullet points
- I loved the increased presence of Dr. Smith’s at Blissdom this year. I can’t thank them enough for allowing me to represent such an amazing company at Blissdom. I have a fun giveaway and a few other things in store throughout the year. Also, can we talk about their promotional materials for a moment? I loved seeing quotes from some of my favorite Twitter friends.
- I didn’t leave as inspired as last year but it wasn’t because the speakers were lacking. I loved hearing Jon Acuff (speak twice), Scott Stratten and Megan Jordan. I learned that multi-tasking is a myth. I’m still working through this one guys, I’ve always prided myself on being a multi-tasking extraordinaire. Apparently, that doesn’t do anything but bring your IQ down and get a ton of tasks half-way completed.
- Am I the only one who finds head shots a little odd? I know they are necessary but I always feel so lame just smiling at the camera. And then, the photographer asked me to do something funny and… NOTHING. I got nothing. I should have done something funny or cute, but y’all, I’m too big of a dork for all of that. Seriously, not cool enough at all. So I don’t have anything funny or cutesy to show you, just a plain headshot.
- One thing I love most about Blissdom is meeting new people or people who I’ve only made an online connection with (that sounds creepier than it really is). AP and I met Jon Acuff in the hallway and he couldn’t believe that a girl from Alabama and a girl from Maryland randomly became friends at a blog conference last year. He was still thinking about it during his session because he mentioned it again while speaking (during his breakout session). I was a little more comfortable with the whole blogging conference setting, and I was a little more brave as I talked and networked with many new friends. I am still an introvert to my core, which sometimes comes across in a way that it isn’t meant to. I promise, after I start talking, you’ll wish I would stop.
Just a few of the fun people from Blissdom. I tried to stalk some of your blogs (ahem, Rachel and Molly) and snag some more pictures, but some people haven’t posted them yet. Top to bottom, left to right: Heather, my travel buddy who only lives about 20 minutes away. AP, my Blissdom roommate all the way from Maryl>and. The beautiful Melissa from The View From Five-Two. I met these two ladies for the first time, on the first night, and instantly loved them both, can’t wait to read more from Erin and Blair. The adorable Mandy from A Sorta Fairytale and Mandy from House of Rose. Sweet Megan, I definitely wish we could have chatted more (and why didn’t we get a picture Meredith?), I seriously needed time to sit down and chat with a few more ladies. The weekend went by so quickly. There were so many other great bloggers I got to meet and chat with, I’m afraid if I start naming then I will forget someone.
- Elizabeth from Dr. Smith’s is seriously one of my favorite people. I don’t know how we managed to miss the photo-op. I was so impressed as she handled everything seamlessly. I also love her for letting me play with candy bar and exercise a little creativity. You did Dr. Smith’s well at Blissdom!
- And who can forget Sprinkles cupcakes. I tried them for the first time this weekend and they lived up to all of the hype. Red Velvet is the way to go!
- The ladies at the One 2 One booth introduced me to bright-colored lipstick and false eyelashes. Two things I’m not brave enough to try. I’m going to pick up this fun lip color but I’ll save the false eye lashes for another day, I’m not glam enough for that in real life. Also, I’m now on the hunt for a cute pair of aviators like these I tried on at the VSP booth.
- I had such a great time at Blissdom, but my heart was thrilled to see Allen and Braylen at the airport. We quickly put my bags in the car and headed to an Easter egg hunt, I got to jump right back into the role I love most.
Brandi says
I cannot tell you how much I just LOVE this blog. You replied to a message the other day from my first visit to your little piece of the web! So thank you for that!
I think the reason I love this blog so much, is because I believe we have so much in common. I loved your comment about being an introvert at first, but once you start talking everyone will want you to stop. MY. LIFE. ๐ Thanks for always being so open and honest!
I can totally relate to the first part of this blog as well. I get so motivated because I have been to an amazing conference or I have read an incredible story of someone’s journey or an amazing book, but then after a few weeks or months (if I’m lucky) I sort of start to lose that motivation that once got me going. You are right, it is all about priorities, but sometimes, it’s just hard to get them right. It takes work, and trust me, I am still working! If only I was an earlier morning person, or if only I liked to work out more or spend more time with, “xyz”. We all live lives of “if-only” lingering over our heads. You are so good at motivating me to be a better in the now person, and again I thank you for that!
I hope it doesn’t seem weird that I keep commenting, telling you how amazing you are, but seriously I want you to know that this blog is so amazing! Keep it up!
-B
Erin @ Blue-Eyed Bride says
I love this. It looks like you had a fantastic time and learned so much. And you know what? Your blog is important but your life and your family are more important and that always shines through here! And that inspires and encourages people!
Neely says
Was wonderful to see you!
Timsha says
It looked like you had a great time at Blissdom this year, and it looks as though you got out of if just what was meant for you to. I am sure you and AP had an awesome time as well. Maybe next year I will be there with you! ๐
Oh, and B is adorable with her bunny face!
In This Wonderful Life says
It was so nice to finally meet you, Jennifer! Hopefully one day we will be somewhere we can have more time to chat!! I totally meant to have you send me the pic of us! I may snag it if you don’t care! Dr.Smith’s did a wonderful job as did all of you girls!
Kate says
This is the first recap that made me really really want to go! But I would be terrified! I really liked hearing about it from your point of view.
Emily says
How did you get sponsored for Blissdom? I started to look into it last year so that I could go this year, but never got the guts to email a company and go with it. No real idea who to approach.
Mandy@ a sorta fairytale says
I had only visited your blog a few times before BlissDom, but from now on will be a regular around here. I think you are just the sweetest person, with a heart of gold!! Hope we get a chance to meet again, and hang out more!!
Heather says
Sounds like a great time! I’d love to attend a blog conference sometime in the future, but I think it makes me a little nervous!
Anna says
Thanks for this recap! It sounds fun! I haven’t ever really thought about going to a blog conference and just blog as a hobby, but it sounds like something I should consider.
I LOVE reading your blog and it’s such an inspiration to me. You definitely put first things first and that’s so refreshing!
Jennifer says
I was not able to attend Blissdom, although I’d love to go next year. I’ve found it interesting to read about big bloggers (you all are big and famous to me) who are introverts. I am an introvert and was shy growing up, and I love it that introverts can find their voice through blogging!